Friday, February 8, 2008

Happy Chinese New Year

It's the Lunar New Year again! Like usual, eve, 1st day & 2nd day of the lunar new year, we will be at my mother-in-law's house. But this year is a bit different, as we don't have a maid to help us with Darren. Our house is very different from other people houses, since we found out that Darren is autistic, all the fans are mounted on the wall, all decorative item which are breakable are being kept away, and the main gate is always close. At my in laws house, it's not like that. So, I am having a hard time getting him to sit down to play with his toys or watch TV. As, he has many items that he can't find at home to play with........

My father-in-law is very worried about Darren, but he said 2 sentences that hurt my heart a bit, but I can forgive him, as I know he didn't mean it. He said to Darren, "Stupid! can't even take ang bao yourself." and "Stupid! ppl give you eat chicken, you don't even want to take it yourself."
But these 2 sentences will not deter my hope & determination, as I know, one day Darren will be a better person, and he will love me as much as I love him.

All his activities has stopped due to CNY, it will all resume again on Monday. And it will be the start of another new day for us. Darren! Gambate! You will make it :-)

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