Darren likes being cuddle nowadays. He will want me to hold him in my arms for long period of time, which i can't really take it anymore as he has grown up, 14 kgs! This is also a good sign, as i observe that Derrick also like being cuddle & hold in our arms.
When Darren is crying, I will imitate him, and usually he will stop in a while. But it's quite tiring for me. haha. The teacher at Fei Yue asked me about the bump on his head. Told her is self inflicted injury, as he likes to bang his head against the floor when he is upset for God knows reasons. Yesterday he cried and he said "nen..nen..nen" But he just finished his milk. So I kept asking him what he want, but didn't manage to force any words out from him. I will keep doing this, asking him what he want when he is upset, maybe miracle will happen and he will say what he want out of desperation, hehe.
The teacher at Fei Yue will consult their head psychologist and they will try to come out with a solution to stop him from his self injury behaviour. His tapping is less now, but he still tap, on cupboard, on glass, any surfaces that can make sound, according to Fei Yue this is one of bad habit, but according to Sanjay, this is just a way of coping, because he can't do a lot of things so he resulted to tapping, just to release himself. Just like when we can't do our exam questions and we will bite our nails. So, i am not sure who is telling the right thing. But his tapping is nothing compare with his biting & licking of non-food objects, that is one behaviour i categorised as bad behaviour, as it's not very hygienic. But until now, noone ever come out with good way to prevent him from biting & licking non-food objects. God knows when he will get over this.
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